It took me a long time and a lot of hard work to become financially successfull in my career. Yet now I struggle more every day, worry more every day and have more health issues related to that stress. Why, because the more I make , it seems the less I earn. At one point life was good, what I earned = more than what I spent. Then I hit a magic tax bracket where what I earned at a higher salary= less than what I was spending to keep what I already had. It got to the point if I worked overtime at work for time and a half, I jumped to the next higher tax bracket, and took home less.
I too invest towards my retirement, so my take home check is even less. This money is in a 403b(like a 401k). I save towards retirement, because I know the government can't support me and my wife, I have to contribute to that in addition to what I pay for social security, and medicare.
Now as I aproach 50, and see retirement as a welcome relief, from the work and financial stress of working, I see that date getting farther away from what was promised when I entered the working class of my youth. I see the retirement age for medicare going up to the point where I wonder what the stress effects of work to my health, will be in relation to the time to enjoy the benefits of retirement.
About 6 years ago we added an addition to our house. Hurricane Catrina hit in the middle of it and the cost of construction doubled. A lot of the other corperate scandles happened and interest rates went from 5-6.25% for home loans that were at a fixed interest rate.
As my home costs skyrocketed, with the new mortgage, my check decreased with inflation and taxes
So now instead of bailing myself out, for my own actions of trying to improve my life for myself and my family, instead of not paying my mortgage, going into forclosure, or short sale, and then say buying the neighbors house at half the cost, sticking it to the banks(the supreme evil of the occupy movement). I chose to take responsibility for my own actions, continue to pay my mortgage, and live with a much tighter belt, worry about what would happen if I lost my job, and work harder so that hopefully won't happen.
The point of all of this (as a former liberal democrat) is enough. Enough is enough. I get it now. I'm working and contributing to the welfare of this country, but this country is going from a Democracy to a socialistic state. What I never got before, was at some point the incentives for those working to better themselves, will be offset by the incentives to not work. When that happens socialism colapses, as did communism. If you don't have an incentive to work, then you don't have production and income into the system. The more people who chose to bow out, the harder it is for those who are left to brunt the bill. This isn't politics, or partizenship, this is reality. The point is why is it the responsibility of those who can achieve to support those who won't or don't want to?
Why do I need to stress and struggle to support someone who thinks it's beneath them to take a certain job they qualify for, when taking welfare and unemployment pays more, then using those handouts to take drugs and and propegate more spawn like themselves. I don't want to hit the 50% income tax level, to support my neighbors who'd rather get high than work. Taxing more to the wealthy is a joke. If you pay a dollar a year in taxes as working poor, but take a 20k subsidy from the the rich in government housing, food stamps and free medical health, you are leaching from the system. Why is it my responsibility to pay for that. When I earned less in my youth, I lived within my means, and took a second job to make things work when I needed to. I didn't get a bunch of credit cards, run them up buying expensive cars, tv's clothing, etc. Then declare bankruptcy and stick the bill on my friends and neighbors.
I think people get so caught up with the "they have more, and we have less", mentality, that they lose sight that those with more may have worked their @$$# off to get there, and now work hard to stay there. More finacial success doesn't mean a happier life. It includes more stress and responsibility.
O.K. I'll step down now. Thanks for letting me rant.