Thank god she came out alive, our prayers are certainly with her and your family. May god give her the strength and wisdom to free herself from him. Barb is right, she needs to talk to a psychologist soon. I've got family that went thru clinical depression (it's a real bad deal) and if she lets it well up inside she'll be there before you know it. She'll always have an insecure and belittled feeling around him. There's no shame in talking to a trained ear. God Bless!