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I have several vehicles- all are aluminum "mag" style wheels w/ the mag style lug nuts.

One car has Halibrands. They are aluminum & 1 piece I believe. I've been told everything from 45 to 105 & everywhere inbetween.

Another car has Weld DragLites. They are aluminum 2 piece.
These I seem to remember being told to torque to 45. If you take them to 60- the center of wheel around the washer on the nut begins to distort because of the multiple pieces of the center.

So, what is the rule of torque for aluminum wheels?

How many times should a lug nut be torqued before you've stretched the threads & they should be replaced?