Look, we've all seen those cars and laughed at them. But those are the cheap add-ons. There are some of those cars that are fast! When you can get a four-door Subaru that will run high 13's off the showroom floor, you have to be careful who you pick at a Stoplight Grand Prix.
Those coffee can mufflers are kind of the equal of all those traction bars and other crap that did nothing back in the '70's. The only reason we didn't have monster tachs on our cars back then is that they weren't available. We had those smaller Sun tachs and Stewart-Warner was state of the art. Hi-tech in stereo was a reverb.
We are what we are raised with. In the '60's, an economy car was a Valiant, a Falcon or a Chevy II. These cars all had V-8's available and were cheap. V-8 cars were plentiful and a fast car was an engine swap away.
Today, the cheapest V-8 car is $20,000 Mustang. V-8's are still resonable plentiful (from trucks), but what do you put them in? For the last 25 years, cheap cars are FWD and 4 and 6 cylinder. In 99% of the cases, V-8's won't fit.
Growing up I had a '75 Monte Carlo, a '67 Chrysler 300, and a '75 Ford Mustang II with a 302. My first new car was a '86 Escort GT, and my second new car was a '89 Taurus SHO. The SHO is probably the fastest car I've ever had (faster than my 440 CI Chrysler) had it had a top speed of 142 MPH (I saw 135 once before backing off).
I prefer RWD to FWD, but having had both, I don't look down on them (FWD). If you ran 12's or 13's in the '60's, '70's, or early '80's, you were fast. You can buy cars that tickle 12's right off the showroom floor right now (Viper, Corvette, Mustang Cobras) and others that will run 12's all day with bolt-on parts (Camaros, Firebirds, Neon SRT-4, supercharged Grand Prix's, Regals and Impalas, Dodge Ram SRT-10's, Ford Lightnings, GTO's, etc.). Some are FWD.
Hondas, Nissans, Toyotas are part of the landscape and have been for the last 25 years. Some are extremely fast (Z-cars, RX-7's, S2000's, NSX's, Sentra SE-R's, Celica Supras, etc.) and some are not. Some are RWD and most are not. Cheap and dependable? Absolutely. These are the cars this generation have been raised with. When the dad has a Maxima and mom is driving a Civic, what do you expect if this is what they are exposed to.
The snobbery can be ugly. Yes hot rods, in the old school ideal, are cool. Yes, musclecars from the '60's are cool. Cutting down someone who doesn't share what your ideal may be is not cool. They work hard to make their car something they can be proud of. What they build may not be ideal, and I'm not getting a Civic anytime soon, but I respect the effort that goes into the build.