Two years ago we were in the e.r. at st. juds hosp. my wife had a stroke (what a life and retirement changer that is) yesterday about 10am. I was getting the turkey dinner ready the phone rang my little brother had a massive hart attack and died (64yrs old) that pretty much killed the holiday spirit but it wasn't over yet about 2 hrs later the phone rang they found my best friend lt'l john dead in his Mobil home looks like he had been dead fore several days so I don't much care for thanksgiving any more and it used to be my favorite day of the year not any more....ted