Thread: I Need Your Prayer's
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08-23-2008 06:12 AM #1
I Need Your Prayer's
My daughter was battered by her boyfriend . Not the blackeye or bloody nose like most . He beat her hard enough that he cracked her eye sockets and her frontal lobe above her nose (skull) and pushed her nose in her face over a 1/4 inch . The damage was so exstint it took 4 hours of reconstuctive sugery to correct it .
This is not even the bad part . She is protecting him saying it was a accident and they were just playing around . How can love at the age of 21 be so blind .
She has dated this kid since she was 15 he is bi polar and i seen his anger . I did everything i could do as a parent to stop the relationship and try to get her to break up with out coming right out and saying it . I am a very strict father and held her to the house rules even to the curfews i set .
The law says they are tied unless she files charges also . He did admit it to Detective he did it and used same story , I sure hope they have a loop hole and nail this kid . I mean i look at this as bad as being shot . He is dangerous and needs prison time . A little more harder punch the Surgeon said she would have been dead .
His mother placed him in a pshyc ward he said he would committ suicide . Copout is all that is . If your going to committ suicide you dont tell anyone you just do it .
When we brought her home from Hospital my wife and I are useing tough love and telling her the only way she can live with us is press charges . She is still fighting us on this saying she dont want to press charges . His family is trying to get her to let him move away but you cant live far enough away to correct the wrong he did . Prison may make him worse but not my problem is it ? I am serious on this decision also , i will have her cuffed and removed from my house to prove this also .
She starts her college on monday for Vet Tech and she has worked on getting in program for 2 yrs allready in school . This is the only thing i have to fight with telling her she will lose this and have nothing from us .
So please pray that after she looks in the mirror enough she see's that this isn't right and follows through .Last edited by bluestang67; 08-23-2008 at 06:16 AM.
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