Well I took the torque converter out and back to the transmission shop. Sam the main guy there remembered me, said he'd run the numbers of the torque converter and see if they could locate one that fits the pilot to the crank. Very nice guy, no questions or hassles even though they rebuilt it last May! He said he should be able to get the right one by tomorrow or the next day.
I'm working till the weekend so it really doesn't matter, I managed to pick up some bug at work that seems like a cold or sinus infection, so I guess this week just wasn't meant to be!